Feelings at their zenith !!! - Part 1
I have come a long way. I had my share of good and bad and today as I sit here i know what is right and what is wrong. Parents I know are an integral part of our lives, they tell us what is good for us and what is not but we are matured enough to take some of our decisions on our own. They need to understand us and trust us, they need to set us free and have our own experiences. They can't always hold our hands and lead us towards our destination. We have grown up.
It's the wrong notion that parents can never be wrong. They are humans; they have different thinking and different mentality from us. They need to grasp our point of view also as we see their point when they put forward a decision. In the same way they need to analyse the situation from our side, they need to understand that we, the children. are not always wrong as they think us to be. We are independent enough to take some of our decisions. If we are contradicting them on some matters then they need to understand our point of view; they need to consider our analyses of the situation. There decisions sometimes become so one-sided and selfish that we start feeling sorry for their thinking process. The notion they have in life is to offer their children the best of all; and I respect them for this; but being selfish for that doesn't seem at all right to me. Call it whatever but humanity is also a moral value taught to us by them; keeping promises, thinking about others before ourselves; the importance of friendship are also a part of education they imparted to us; but I think so they have been so blinded in our love to offer us the best that they themselves somewhat lack in these qualities when it comes to their children.
Talking about me here : I love my parents, my family more than anything in this world - and I mean it- and so does every child present on this earth. No child could ever hate/dislike his/her parents because they know what their parents have gone through to make them what they are today. My parents love me more than I can imagine. They may think I don't know that but I do know all what hardships they were facing, they are facing or will be facing. They might have kept all/some a secret but i know all what they had gone through. I know all the times they were crying/suffering silently because of me or the fights they were having or the financial problems they were facing; I know it all from A to Z; but they don't know how much I respect, adore and love them. I might have made a score friends but love for them can never become less. I still love them with the same amount of respect in heart and always will. My life has introduced me to many other people apart from my parents yet their place is special. They need to understand this that even if I make a million friends then also they will never be forgotten, they are holding a special place in my heart. My heart is an abode for them where they can reside for eternity and never find a reason to leave.
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It's the wrong notion that parents can never be wrong. They are humans; they have different thinking and different mentality from us. They need to grasp our point of view also as we see their point when they put forward a decision. In the same way they need to analyse the situation from our side, they need to understand that we, the children. are not always wrong as they think us to be. We are independent enough to take some of our decisions. If we are contradicting them on some matters then they need to understand our point of view; they need to consider our analyses of the situation. There decisions sometimes become so one-sided and selfish that we start feeling sorry for their thinking process. The notion they have in life is to offer their children the best of all; and I respect them for this; but being selfish for that doesn't seem at all right to me. Call it whatever but humanity is also a moral value taught to us by them; keeping promises, thinking about others before ourselves; the importance of friendship are also a part of education they imparted to us; but I think so they have been so blinded in our love to offer us the best that they themselves somewhat lack in these qualities when it comes to their children.
Talking about me here : I love my parents, my family more than anything in this world - and I mean it- and so does every child present on this earth. No child could ever hate/dislike his/her parents because they know what their parents have gone through to make them what they are today. My parents love me more than I can imagine. They may think I don't know that but I do know all what hardships they were facing, they are facing or will be facing. They might have kept all/some a secret but i know all what they had gone through. I know all the times they were crying/suffering silently because of me or the fights they were having or the financial problems they were facing; I know it all from A to Z; but they don't know how much I respect, adore and love them. I might have made a score friends but love for them can never become less. I still love them with the same amount of respect in heart and always will. My life has introduced me to many other people apart from my parents yet their place is special. They need to understand this that even if I make a million friends then also they will never be forgotten, they are holding a special place in my heart. My heart is an abode for them where they can reside for eternity and never find a reason to leave.
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